Keep Only a Few Friends

 

Source: ‘Biography of Imaam Sufyaan ath-Thawri'

       Bismillaah wa-Hamdulillaah was-salaatu was-salaamu 'alaa rasoolilaah

Imaam Sufyaan Ath-Thawri (rahimahullaah), a true mountain of knowledge & the leader of believers in Hadeeth said that one foolishly compromised one’s religion when one kept too many friends. Having too many acquaintances diverts one from one’s duty towards one’s Lord, for a person who has many friends is always busy socializing with them and fulfilling their rights over him; so he becomes preoccupied with people when he really should be preoccupied with his religious duties. The ill-effects of being too gregarious can last well beyond a social gathering.

If you find yourself LAZY upon obedience to Allaah

 ...then be afraid that Allaah is averse to your obedience 

 

Translated by Rasheed Barbee

Sheikh Muhammad ibn Saalih ibn al-Uthaimeen (rahimahullaah) said in his explanation of the book, Aqeedah of Ahlus Sunnah wa Jamaat in tape number seven:

وَلَكِن كَرِهَ اللهُ انبِعاثَهُمْ فَثَبَّطَهُمْ وَقيلَ اقْعُدوا مَعَ القاعِدينَ
“…but Allaah was averse to their being sent forth, so He made them lag behind, and it was said (to them), "Sit you among those who sit (at home)."

(At-Tawbah 9:46)

Oh Allaah save us…this verse is extremely dangerous & the scale is in His saying,

Truly in the heart there is a void.....

 

"Truly in the heart there is a void that cannot be removed except with the company of Allaah. And in it there is a sadness that cannot be removed except with the happiness of knowing Allaah & being true to Him. And in it there is an emptiness that cannot be filled except with love for Him & by turning to Him & always remembering Him. And if a person were given all of the world & what is in it, it would not fill this emptiness." 

-- Ibnul-Qayyim al-Jawziyyah (Rahimahullaah)

The Most Evil of The People In Relation To Stealing

The Noble Sheikh Abdur Razzaaq Ibn Abdil-Muhsin Al-Badr (may Allaah preserve them) stated:

"Indeed, from the GREATEST of mistakes, which some of those who pray fall into, is abandoning being in the state of ease in the Salaah. Indeed the Prophet (sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam) considered the one who does that, to be from the most EVIL of those who steal.”

On the authority of Abee Qataadah (may Allaah be pleased with him), he said:

The Messenger of Allaah (sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam) stated:

"The most evil of those who steal, is the one who steals from his Salaah."

The companions stated:

"Oh Messenger of Allaah, how does he steal from his salaah?"

Marry your sister or daughter off to a taalıbul ilm

Shaykh Muqbil (rahimahullaah) said:

"If you were to marry your sister or daughter off to a taalıbul ilm, it is better for you than thıs dunya and what is in it”.

Taken from the book bashaair fi simaa' al mubaashir.