Question: Is there any advice for those women who believe that the home is a prison (for them)?
Sheikh ’Uthaimeen رحمه الله says:
“Yes, that which I
say to those women is that the One who has made the house a “prison” if it is
even proper to say that is Allaah, the Mighty and Majestic. The Most High says:
وَقَرْنَ
فِي بُيُوتِكُنَّ
Also the authentic narration of the
Prophet, صلّى اللَّهُ عليه وسلّم stated about the women: “and their homes
are better for them”. The woman is free in her home, she goes to every place
therein and takes care of the needs of the house and works for herself so where
is the imprisonment or confinement? Yes it is a prison for the one who wishes
to be like a man. From what is well-known is that Allaah, the Most High, has
placed certain characteristics for the men as well as for the women and He has
designated between them with regards to their physical make-up, characteristics
and intellects.
And we say to the woman who says that the woman remaining in
her home is like a prison that she is in opposition to the statement of Allaah,
the Most High, where He says:
“And remain
in your homes.” [33:33]
How can we consider what Allaah has commanded with to a
prison? It is like I said a prison for the one who wishes to mix and mingle
with the men and activeness. For indeed remaining in the home includes
happiness, modesty, bashfulness and distance from fitnah (trials). Likewise
in it is distancing the women from looking at the men because when she goes out
and sees these men, this handsome young man with nice clothing and the likes she
will be put to trial likewise the men with her.
So the women must fear Allaah and return to what their
Lord and Creator and to what the Messenger of the Lord of all the Worlds, may
peace and blessings be upon him, has mentioned to them and they must know with
certainty that they are going to meet Allaah, the Mighty and Majestic, and He
will question them: “How did you respond to the Messengers?” They do not know
when they will meet Allaah. She might wake up in her home or palace and in the
evening in her grave or vice-versa. Therefore these women must fear Allaah and
leave alone these evil western ideologies. For when these westerns consumed
these foul meats they left the bones and scraps for us after all the meat
has been eaten. Now they wish that their women can return to being a true
woman, like the Muslimah, remaining in her home with modesty and faraway from
places of evil and trials however that will not happen for them. Is it
befitting for us Muslims, we have our own religion, our own mannerisms and
characteristics to chase after them in their wretchedness?! Glory be to Allaah,
the Great. There is no might nor power except with Allaah.
The is Truth Compelling Upon Salafi Publications Abdul Hakeem Amreekee
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