By Imâm Ibnul Qayyim
The
Meaning of Patience!
In the Arabic language, 'Sabr' means ‘to hold fast, cease, or choke’.
For example, in Bedouin Arabic, to say 'one has been killed by sabr,' means one
is choked to death. Allaah سُبحانه وتعالى says,
وَاصْبِرْ
نَفْسَكَ مَعَ الَّذِينَ يَدْعُونَ رَبَّهُم بِالْغَدَاةِ وَالْعَشِيِّ يُرِيدُونَ
وَجْهَهُ
"Moreover,
keep yourself patient in the company of those (humble believers) who call upon
their Lord (with devotion) in the morning and in the evening, desiring (only)
His Face."
(Al-Kahf 18:28)
Sabr in this verse means to ‘hold onto’.
Thus,
Sabr means to hold oneself from anxiety (jaza) and anger (tasakhkhut)
, to hold one’s tongue from complaint, and to hold one’s body from disgraceful
movements.
It
is of three types: Patience in obeying Allaah (namely, perseverance), patience
in avoiding Allaah’s disobedience (namely, resolve), and patience in Allaah’s
tests. The first two of these are related to voluntary acts, over which we as
humans have control. The last pertains to what happens to us (by Allaah’s
decree) wherein we have no choice.
The
Patience of the Prophet Yusuf عليه السلام
I have
heard Ibn Taymiyyah رحمه
الله say:
“(The Prophet) Yusuf’s patience in
resisting the temptation of the minister’s wife was higher than his patience
regarding his brothers’ throwing him into the well and separating him from his
father, for the latter happened to him without his choice. In such cases, a
servant of Allaah has no option but patience. But his perseverance in avoiding
the seduction (of the minister’s wife) involved his choice and pleasure
(resulting from his volitional obedience to Allaah), and struggling against his
self.